Y'all Miss Cleo ain't got nuttin' on me!!! Remember the guy from "The Double Stuff"? You know, the one who decided that "he wasn't trying to hear" me tell him that I didn't want to communicate with him anymore. Well, today he decides to send me a text message and the converstation goes like this:
Wally: Hey babe how are you?
Me: **no answer**
W: ??????
M: I'm good
W: Wow you gonna be short with me? I'm coming to Houston tomorrow. Can I come see you?
M: I have plans
W: Like always!! So can I see you?
M: No
W: Good
M: You do know that when I sent that other text, I'm done and prefer to cease communication, right?
W: I got you. I'll delete your number. Nice meeting you
M: Nice meeting you too! You take care...
W: You must have found you someone huh?
M: I hope you find what you're looking for and have a good day.
W: Did you find a man is what I'm asking?
M: Nope, I'm just not that into you and I don't want to waste anymore of my time or yours. Have a great day! (I know that was a little harsh but I don't know how many other ways to politely say that we've come to the end of this road)
My question is how did he not get that from my last text message (LAST WEEK) that I was done? I thought that I was pretty direct. And why is it that I don't want to talk to him because I have a man? Why can't it be that I'm just not that into him?
It's the fact that he's always had access. When people get comfortable they don't realize that someone can snatch that "all access" pass back. Stand firm cousin...Heal...and Move forward!
ReplyDeleteThat's the thing...there's nothing to heal from. We were still in the "getting to know you" phase, so even though some text message/phone time was invested, there wasn't anything else there.
ReplyDeleteWell Damn...
ReplyDeleteYeah, but it hasn't always been that way. They feel every other time you would have jumped to the opportunity. They never think that someone would reject them. It is going to literally take a few more times for him to get the message so just stick to your guns and eventually just stop responding all together. Don't even use one word and then they would get the message. It is sad you have to treat th that way but they bring it on themselves.
ReplyDeleteUmmm this is hilarious dude! His ego was broke and thought if he waited a week you would change your mind!
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